5 Things I’ve Learned from Photographing Families for 7+ Years

Since officially launching my photography business in 2017 (and doing unofficial sessions for many years leading up to that), I’ve had the joy of documenting hundreds of families. From sleepy newborns to wild toddlers to moody teens and everything in between. Along the way, I’ve picked up a few pieces of wisdom that have nothing to do with camera settings and everything to do with what matters most when you’re deep in the day-to-day of raising kids.

1. The “perfect photo” usually isn’t the posed one.

It’s rarely the one where everyone is looking and smiling. It’s the quiet hand squeeze, the snuggle, the big kid helping their baby sibling climb a rock. The moment you didn’t even notice I captured until you see it and feel it.

2. Every family is a little bit messy. And that’s not just okay, it’s wonderful.

Your toddler will sprint away at least once. Someone will cry. Your dog might photobomb. And guess what? These are the things that make your gallery feel real. You don’t need to bring your best behavior, just bring yourselves.

3. Kids run the show and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Bribes, pep talks, “just one more” pleads... I’ve seen it all. But I’ve also seen what happens when we stop trying to control every second and just follow their lead. The best photos happen when we embrace the pace of childhood.

4. You’ll never regret getting in the photo.

You may feel tired, awkward, or not “ready.” But your kids don’t care how your hair looks. They just want to see you. Years from now, they’ll treasure that glimpse of your love and presence.

5. The days are long, the years are fast, and photos help us hold onto it all.

It’s cliché for a reason. This season is loud and exhausting and beautiful and fleeting. Every session I photograph is a reminder to slow down and notice the way your child reaches for your hand, or how their hair curls at the neck, or how tiny their shoes still are.

If you’ve been putting off family photos because life feels too hectic or you’re not “camera ready,” I hope this reminds you that there’s no perfect time, only right now. If your heart’s telling you it’s time to get in the photo, I’d be honored to help you do that.